Orange blossom, rosebud or apple blossom
Orange blossom oil
Some of your hair (pubic or chest hair)
On a Friday evening, ask the goddess Venus or Isis, or Cupid/Eros for help in making your beloved yours, saying:
"Declare yourself to me truly __________; I mean you no harm and can contribute to your life of settled bliss".
Anoint the pink candles with the oils, add all the rest of the and grind to a powder. Sprinkle where your lover goes often (ideally his/her bedroom).